Graham Ewen

Message from Andrew Spetzler

and, of course, Michael, Tammy, Emma, Speck, and Bella

Message from Tammy

Thank you Andrew ❤️

Message from Andrew Spetzler

Graham,
I think a lot (usually not about much) and often about you, your family, and friends.
What I feel when I’m with your family is “peace, love, and ‘nice stuff’. What little time that I have had the privilege to spend with you has always been engaging and fun. I always feel better for it. Thank you.
The anger I feel (selfish on my part) is short and fleeting; the sadness will endure.
We are good people and you have left quite a vacuum.
Let us appreciate and acknowledge each other as we can. Much love.
Thank you Graham. You are missed.

A candle was lit by Amber on December 1, 2018 2:22 PM

A candle was lit by Kristin Bianchi on November 14, 2018 11:00 PM

Message from Kristin Bianchi

Dear Ewen Family,
Although we’ve never met, I wanted to extend my deepest condolences to you. Although I only met Graham on a couple of different occasions while vacationing at the Greenbrier, he thoroughly warmed my heart, and I’m devastated to learn of his tragic passing. He was my kayak guide in early September 2016, and I’ll never forget the afternoon that I got to spend with him on the river. It was one of the best days I’ve ever had, and that’s owing entirely to Graham’s warm, funny, thoughtful company. He carried himself with the type of grace towards towards which most of us spend a lifetime striving. On the day that I met him, I was the only guest to have signed up for the kayaking adventure. Rather than being disappointed by having to go out on the river for just one guest, he made me feel like a V.I.P. It was as though I’d known him forever. I recall being struck by how preternaturally present he was for every second of an afternoon-long conversation. (He did pause momentarily to photograph a water moccasin, but he possessed such a calm demeanor that it barely occurred to me to be afraid of the nearby poisonous snake!) An expert kayaker I am not, and to my great embarrassment, I fell out of my kayak twice during that trip! Both times, Graham patiently helped me get back into my kayak. Each time, once he was certain that I was okay and smiling, he joined me in laughing my head off. At one point, we stopped at an embankment to take a rest. There, he stunned me with a gesture of solidarity that brings tears to my eyes as I write this: sensing how self-conscious I was about capsizing, he up and decided to dive headfirst into the frigid rapids, telling me that he didn’t want me to feel alone in having fallen in. I was gobsmacked that someone would do something so selflessly thoughtful for a complete stranger. I remember marvelling that such a young man could possess such an old soul. On that same embankment, he picked out rocks for me to take home as souvenirs. It was another fun plot twist in my nature adventure with Graham; I felt like a little kid on a treasure hunt. I remember him handing stones to me one-by-one, each time flashing a dimpled, twinkling grin. I keep those rocks in my office, and every time I look at them, I think of Graham’s beautiful smile and the kindness behind it...and I’m flooded anew with gratitude. We remained in loose touch after that, and I had the pleasure of seeing him again last Thanksgiving when I was staying at the Greenbrier. I’d hoped to see him this year, too—to have him joke that he hadn’t dropped anyone in at least a month while helping me belay down a 50-ft drop—and my heart is heavy knowing that that can’t happen. I will always remember Graham, and I will do whatever I can to pay forward the extraordinary kindness that he showed me. I will hold your family close in heart and mind. I wish you warmth and comfort and any peace that can possibly be had in the wake of such an immeasurable loss.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful memory of our sweet Graham. You perfectly captured his true essence, the beautiful soul that we knew and loved. We would love to meet you if you are ever in the area and want to connect.

A candle was lit by Barbara Helvey Hughes, Hughes Gallery, Boca Grande, FL on March 7, 2018 10:33 AM

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Graham was my little angel last year, when he worked in Boca Grande, FL. Each day when I arrived at my art gallery, he greeted me by singing "Good Morning, Barbara" to me and was always there to help me, when things needed getting done.

I am deeply saddened and stunned, really, that he is gone. To Graham's family: I send you my Love and Brightest Blessings, as well as my deepest condolences. A fine, bright Light has dimmed and we are all the worse, for this loss.

I Loved your son and have missed his presence this season, more than I can express. He was a uniquely kind and a sweet loving human. I feel very blessed, having known him.
Sincerely,
BHH

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful memories of our sweet Graham.

Message from Vonda Camper

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you so much Vonda.

A candle was lit by I´m so sorry on March 1, 2018 3:39 PM

A candle was lit by Vanessa Alonso on February 28, 2018 1:41 PM

Message from The Steele family

Graham's life brought into this world a light which will never be extinguished as long as his gentle spirit is remembered by so many -- and it will be, for a long time. Sending so much love.
Gail, Robert and Ansel

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you for your kind words about Graham. They are of great comfort to us.

Message from Sheila Teahan

Mike, Tammy, and Emma,
My heart goes out to you. I never had the privilege of meeting Graham. yours, Sheila

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you.

A candle was lit by Dani Hunter on February 24, 2018 4:12 PM

Message from Lindsey and Jeremy Boggs

We met Graham about 2 years ago through my dad, Cody Morgan. When the flood of 2016 hit and none of us had power we grilled hot dogs at his landlords house and just hung out until the early morning hours talking, laughing, and just forgetting the destruction around us for a little while. Even though we had just met him it was like we had been friends for years. My husband could not remember what his name was so he said Graham like the cracker and from then on Graham cracker was all my husband called him. Anytime he was around we looked forward to his stories of adventures in his custom made Subaru. We were very sad when we learned he had bought a house and was going to be moving. He was always so respectful to our daughter, and the kindness he showed to her and our cousin Michael is the way we should all strive to be towards others. Graham was one in a million. He will be missed! Our thoughts and prayers go out to all his family during this difficult time.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank for sharing this beautiful memory of our son.

Message from Emily Burleson (Easterling)

Graham was one of the realest people I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. When I felt misunderstood, he made me feel like someone in the world understood me and cared. I won't ever forget his laugh, smile, or kind and beautiful spirit. He was a rare breed. I wish I could go back and hug him one last time! Love you always Graham.

😢 To the Ewen family; THANK YOU for raising such an amazing person. I pray and hope that you will find strength and hope through all of this. Much love,

Emily

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you for sharing how Graham touched your life. These wonderful tributes will keep his legacy of loving kindness alive.

Message from The David Bryan family

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family
So sorry for your heartbreaking loss
David, Angie and family

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you.

A candle was lit by Doug Mundy on February 23, 2018 10:14 PM

A candle was lit by Fran Schley-Johnson on February 23, 2018 8:26 PM

A candle was lit by Bryan and Shirley Thompson on February 23, 2018 5:19 PM

Message from Leonard Kurz

Graham, I loved the bit of time we spent together.
I will miss you.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you Leonard.

A candle was lit by Leonard Kurz on February 23, 2018 1:27 PM

A candle was lit by Andrea Huffman Sloan on February 23, 2018 4:40 AM

A candle was lit by Peggy Smith on February 22, 2018 8:11 PM

Message from Roy McDaniel

My prayers are with all of you !!

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you.

Message from Debi Lowry

Graham came into my life as a fellow "FITTER" at Greenbriar Outfitters. His infectious personality made every moment at work pure joy. We shared so many good times together. He always had my back. Eager to help all his fellow fitters out. I will always be grateful that I had the pleasure of having Graham in my life. A truly outstanding individual. If only we can strive to carry on with his great energy the world will be s better place.
The best and most beautiful things cannot be seen or even touched, but must be felt with the heart. ❤️✌🏻My friend

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you for sharing your warm memories of Graham. Share what he gave you with the world.

Expression of Sympathy

A Garden Path Vase was ordered on February 22, 2018

A candle was lit by Thomas Taylor on February 22, 2018 3:36 PM

Message from Phyllis Ewen & Jim Campen

We are heartbroken by Graham's death and the years ahead that we will not know him. Much love and condolences to our cousins, Mike, Tammy and Emma.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you so much for your kind words and support as we grieve the loss of our remarkable son.

A candle was lit by Phyllis Ewen and Jim Campen on February 22, 2018 3:17 PM

A candle was lit by Nina Zanella on February 22, 2018 2:13 PM

Message from Jessica Marie Fowler

Graham was a gentle soul who I had the honor of knowing for nine too-short years. He was always on an adventure and never left anyone behind. My first memories of our friendship are riding in his car, listening to music and appreciating all the beauty around us. Graham's unique personality and infectious smile made him a magnet for admiration. I will never forget his calm manner or his laughter. I would like to thank his parents for raising such an amazing boy and man. The brief time I knew him was a gift that won't be forgotten. I am so sorry for your loss.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you Jessica.

A candle was lit by RenaGraham on February 22, 2018 11:20 AM

A candle was lit by Bill Hunley on February 22, 2018 11:13 AM

A candle was lit by Becky Albright on February 22, 2018 10:32 AM

Message from Becky Albright

Tammy, Mike and Emma, my heart is breaking right now. Your family welcomed me with open arms when I made the move to VA and that included Graham too! Graham was the sweetest, kindest boy and he touched every life he encountered. My condolences from me and my family. Love and prayers being sent your way.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you so much Becky. We miss you!

A candle was lit by Jonas Slackman on February 22, 2018 9:40 AM

Message from Jonas Slackman

I remember going on a trip to Virginia with my friend a while back. My friend had never been out of Florida. I told this to Graham in passing and he insisted that he take us out to his family’s farm and introduce my friend to the beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Graham was a caring and welcoming person. You will be missed friend.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you for sharing this beautiful story with us.

Message from Khristina Mitchell

Graham was an amazing person. He lit up the room and left no one out. He had a huge heart, amazing sense of humour, and the most infectious smile. My life is better for having known him. I will cherish all the memories. You will be missed Graham.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you for sharing this beautiful remembrance of our son.

A candle was lit by Madison Ross on February 22, 2018 9:11 AM

A candle was lit by Annette Mathews Shannon on February 22, 2018 9:08 AM

Message from Paul and Ellen Muller

You and your family are in our hearts and prayers

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you.

A candle was lit by paul and Ellen Muller on February 22, 2018 8:50 AM

Message from Louie and Lelia

Tammy, Mike and Emma, we grieve with you. Graham had a special sweetness and a gentle spirit. The world is a lesser place without him. Wrapping you all in loving thoughts.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you - he thought the world of you two.

A candle was lit by Cynthia lester on February 22, 2018 4:55 AM

A candle was lit by Mary Tynan Kelly on February 21, 2018 10:55 PM

A candle was lit by Barbara Brown and family on February 21, 2018 10:05 PM

A candle was lit by Dennis and Nancy Harris on February 21, 2018 9:54 PM

Message from Bubby Entsminger

Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Love you all.

Bubby and Janet Entsminger

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you.

A candle was lit by Rain (Yancey) Hupman on February 21, 2018 8:02 PM

Message from Kennedi Null, from Caldwell Wv

My heart is so heavy knowing such a young, wonderful man is no longer with us. I’ve only known Graham for a short period of time. He recently rented a house from my family in Caldwell Wv. He was such a bubbly person to be around. My heart and prayers go out to his family and friends. I pray for healing hearts, as well as forgiveness and trust in the Lord. Graham and his jacked-up Subaru will be dearly missed by my family and I.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you for sharing your kind words and remembrance of Graham.

Message from Gretchen E Notermann

Of course, I cried. Graham was probably the first student I spoke to at Community School, back in Michi's classroom. His beautiful brown eyes and sweet attitude shone like a light then and every other time I ever saw him.
Graham was kind, gentle, and had a great sense of humor. I am profoundly sad to hear that light must now be restricted to our hearts. Never doubt that it is still here. We will remember and cherish all that he brought us and all that you in his family added to CS.

Message from Tammy Ewen

Thank you Gretchen.

A candle was lit by Mary Ann Conlon Smith on February 21, 2018 1:37 AM

A candle was lit by Austin and Emma Beard on February 20, 2018 7:46 PM

A candle was lit by Rader Funeral Home on February 20, 2018 12:38 PM